The Empathy Gap in IT Sales

Ah, the thrill of a sales call! The excitement, the adrenaline, and the hope of turning a prospect into a customer. And then right at the start of the pitch, the salesman drops the million-dollar question, “What’s your requirement, sir?” The customer’s interest fades away faster than my dreams of waking up early.

I witness this very scene in almost every sales call. Salesmen/women, full of enthusiasm at the onset of an introductory sales pitch, set the tone for disaster with this one question. The customer’s response (some polite, some snapping) usually is, “Could you show me what your product does before diving into my requirements?”

The Misguided Mindset

Here’s the thing: in the realm of IT sales, immediately inquiring about requirements is similar to walking into a blind date and asking, “So, when do you want to get married?” Clients are often swamped with various challenges and may not feel ready to discuss their needs until trust is established. They may also want to explore the technology in detail before making any decisions. My 2 Cents? Create a welcoming environment for discussion rather than putting them on the defensive.

It’s time to turn back the clock and take notes from Rocket Singh – Salesman of the Year. He knew that asking ‘What’s your requirement?’ was a rookie move. Instead, he engages clients in a banter that dives deep into their hopes and struggles—like a superhero of empathy.

The Art of Opportunity Building

As sales professionals, our job isn’t to wait for customers to come up with neatly packaged requirements. Then you’re not a salesperson. No! sales professionals are the architects of opportunity. Put yourself in the shoes of the customer and do an imaginary roleplay where a salesperson is approaching you to sell a technology worth crores of rupees. Would you disclose your requirements right on the first or second call? Would you spend crores of rupees to buy something from a person whom you have just met? If yes, then Good Luck with asking the question, “What’s your requirement?’

A conversation with empathy opens the door for a rich discussion, allowing you to explore their unique pain points and position your solutions accordingly.

Think of sales as an art form, not a science. If you treat it like a science experiment, you’ll end up with a formula that explodes flat.

Empathy and Trust Building – Not a One-Call Affair

In the high-stakes world of IT, empathy is the secret sauce that can elevate your sales game from mediocre to stellar. Customers don’t just want a vendor; they want a partner who understands their struggles and can provide effective solutions.

A crucial insight for management in any organization is that trust and empathy-building don’t happen overnight. These qualities develop through repeated, meaningful interactions. Thus, it’s essential to provide sales skill training that emphasizes relationship-building techniques rather than mere product knowledge. When sales teams are trained to listen actively and empathize, they’re much better equipped to create real opportunities for long-term collaboration.

And my friend, if you can trust someone in one conversation, then just stop reading ahead.

So, what’s the takeaway here?

Let’s bury the old, clunky question, “What’s your requirement?” 6 feet under, and replace it with empathetic engagement. It’s about time to pave the way for deeper conversations and more fruitful relationships, especially in IT sales.

Remember, the journey to empathy and trust is a marathon, not a sprint. So, put on your metaphorical walking shoes, channel your inner Rocket Singh, and create a sales culture that prioritizes empathy over expedience.

Because in the end, ‘risk toh spiderman ko bhi lena padhta hai, hum to phir bhi salesmen/women hai.’

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